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Visiting Libya: Palm Trees, Petrol and Green Square

Tripoli's Red GateJune 2008

My Visit to Libya

by Somayya Gefori

I visited Libya for the second time in my life in December 2005. My first time was when I was two years old and whatever I know of that trip is what my parents told me, as I do not remember it. So going for a second time felt like my first time. I flew there on Libyan Arab Airlines (now Libyan Airways) from Heathrow Airport with my mother, two of my three brothers and my sister. My father grew up in the capital city, Tripoli (not to be confused with Tripoli, Lebanon). I felt glad that my father was from a city. I am one of those people who can’t cope without a working shower and amenities! No camping in the woods for me! At least when I ran out of my beloved toiletries, there were shops that sold all the brands you see in the UK.

Palm Trees and Cheap Petrol

The first things I noticed when we stepped out of Tripoli International Airport were the beautiful palm trees. I definitely knew I was in a different country then! I had only ever seen palm trees on TV. I noticed they were very tall. Believe it or not, during my stay in Libya, I got so used to seeing palm trees and talking Arabic, it was strange to come back home and see the greenery, and hear the British accents!

It was a half-hour drive from the airport to the family. Three of my aunties and one uncle still live there. I noticed that the cars in Libya drive much faster than the UK, and don’t seem to follow as many rules. One interesting fact in Libya is that the petrol is cheaper than the water. This is because Libya has its own oil, and doesn’t have to get it from abroad, like some other countries do.

The area where my family and I stayed with relatives was right near a main road. It was always noisy, and at night I could hear cars skidding and plenty of beeping, as some young men like to mess around in their cars. When I arrived I felt tired, but the next day I was ready for action and desperately wanted to see the sights Tripoli had to offer. We had to wait a couple of days because my uncle was the only one who had a car, and the wait almost killed me with boredom!

Seeing the Sights of Tripoli

Marcus Aurelius Arch in Tripoli, LibyaOne of the first things we did was go to the sea. Part of the sea isn’t there anymore, having been reclaimed into land as part of Green Square, near the fort which is called Al-Seraya al-Hamra. The Mediterranean Sea was beautiful, clear blue, not like the North Sea near where I live in the UK. We also went to visit the Tripoli old city, which has the huge Marcus Aurelius Arch, left over from the Roman occupation. There are narrow winding streets, in which my mum managed to find a quaint little silver shop. It was so tiny only one person could stand in it at once! I got a pair of earrings for two and a half Libyan Dinars, which is around £1 in British money. I love bargains!

We celebrated Eid-ul-Adha while we were in Libya, which meant we got to see the sheep getting slaughtered for the first time. It was a good experience, and I am grateful for being able to see it, as you just don’t get to see events like that in the UK. We had two sheep that stayed on the roof (the roofs in Libya are flat and you can walk up there, sit down in the sun, it’s wonderful!), one sheep was a two-year old ram, the other one was smaller, less than a year old. I called him ‘the clueless one’, because he was afraid of everything and looked pretty clueless! The bigger sheep would stamp his hoof at you if you got too close. He was crazy! We called him ‘the wild one’.

Slaughtering the Sheep

The big sheep was slaughtered first. He was brought down the marble steps from the roof. His legs were then tied together as the knife was quickly sharpened on a stone in the kitchen, out of sight. One of my uncles held his horns on his head to keep him still, the other uncle said “Bismillah” and cut the neck. Blood spurted out, and the sheep was kicking and making weird sounds.

It was no longer alive at that time, it’s all just the nerves making the legs kick. My little cousins were squealing, and my little sister fainted! She had to be taken to hospital to make sure her skull wasn’t fractured. Thankfully she was fine. Next came the little sheep’s turn for slaughter, and one my aunties decided to close the back door, to stop the kids making lots of noise.

Problem With My Passport

My mum, two brothers and sister left Libya before me, as there was a problem with my passport. I had to stay on another month! I missed my family and Britain terribly, and also college. I was in the middle of my English course, so I was understandably worried about failing my exam after missing so much work. I had some fun when my family had gone. I was taken by my uncle to the zoo in Tripoli. I love animals, and even have a cat of my own! In the zoo there were tigers, panthers, elephants, monkeys, birds of prey, bulls, camels and more. I liked the camels, we were allowed to feed them popcorn and stroke their heads. I had never seen them up so close before. One thing I didn’t like was all the rubbish some stupid individuals threw into the monkey enclosure. I felt it was dangerous to the monkeys, there could be sharp items. There was also a long, fat snake, I’m not sure what kind, but if you wanted to, you get a picture taken with the snake draped over your shoulders. I opted not to!

Gaddafi’s Face is Everywhere

I went to the fort Al-Seraya al-Hamra in Green Square. Inside is a museum, full of mainly old Greek and Roman statues in ruins. There was also Colonel Gaddafi’s old pale green Beetle car, which I wasn’t particularly interested to see. His face is plastered on billboards, in schools and even in shops all over Libya, that’s quite enough for me!

Royal Palace in Tripoli LibyaOne of my best experiences in Tripoli was eating ice-cream outside the old Royal Palace. It was King Idris’s palace, before he was taken out out of power by Colonel Gaddafi with a military coop. It’s now open to the public.

When the time came to leave, and my passport was ready, I was happy to go home. As I was being driven to the airport, I was thinking, “I’ll miss this place, all the beautiful palm trees, the sea, relatives….” But I was also glad to be going back home after two months. I was really grateful to be ale to see my dad’s homeland, but I still think of Britain as home, because I grew up here, it’s all I know. I would love to go back and visit Libya, but not to stay for a long time!

Where Do I Belong? The Dilemma of a Mixed-Race Muslim

Libya map and UK map blendedMarch 2008

Where Do I Belong?

The Dilemma of a Mixed-Race Muslim

by Somayya Gefori

I am a mixed race Muslim, which sounds simple in itself, but I can often find myself thinking, ‘Where do I really belong?’ I am Libyan on my father’s side, and English on my mother’s side. Oh, how much easier it must be to just be one race! You know right away where you belong, and there’s nobody around you saying, ‘But Libya is better!’ and vice-versa.

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Entertaining the Muslim Youth

January 2008

Entertaining the Muslim Youth

by Somayya Gefori

786, a Muslim Singing Group

When I was a young child, my family listened to the likes of Yusuf Islam in the car. Nowadays there are many nasheed artists, and over the last decade the industry has practically exploded with new talent: Native Deen, 786, Sami Yusuf, Zain Bhikha and Mesut Kurtis, to name but a few. Nor does this trend in entertainment come without controversy.

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Hijab is an Attitude, not a Fashion

Young Muslim woman wearing JilbabNovember 2007

Hijab is an Attitude, not a Fashion

by Somayya Gefori

Hijab is not something we wear as a fashion statement, it is not merely a piece of clothing. Hijab is part of the Islamic way of life, hijab is an attitude, a way of thinking and behaving.

There is such a saying as a woman being clothed, yet naked. This means that she is wearing clothing, but it is so tight and transparent, that it could hardly be called clothing. Even if the clothing is long, if it is tight and figure-hugging, so that it reveals a woman’s shape, it is not hijab.

Hijab is not only wearing a scarf on your head, it also means to cover your awra.

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Blood Donations Save Lives

August 2007

Blood Donations Save Lives

by Somayya Gefori

Muslims can donate blood as charityI am now a regular blood donor, after recently donating blood for the second time.

In the UK, there is a blood donation service called NBS (National Blood Service), which is part of the NHS blood and organ transplants, (National Health Service). NBS collect donated blood all over the country, by organising donation sessions, usually in community centres. These are voluntary and donors are not paid. That’s what makes it a charity, it is clearly done out of the goodness of people’s hearts. Blood donors are urged to donate up to three times a year, with at least a 16-week gap in between each donation so that the blood and cells can regenerate.

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Being a Muslim Teen in the UK

August 2007

Being a Muslim Teen in the UK

by Somayya Gefori

The United Kingdom is home to millions of Muslims

Illusionary Freedom

The first thing that a lot of Muslims who don’t live in a Western country think is that it must be a very bad place, full of temptations to commit all kinds of sins. That may be true, but if you stay close to your deen, ultimately you will begin to see that Western people aren’t so free.

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A Day That Changed My Life

October 2002

A Day That Changed My Life

by Shezena T. Mohammed

A year ago I went to school every day without any thought about my safety there. I went to the masjid without ever wondering if there would be any chance of a bomb being in the mailbox. I spoke freely about politics without any thought of being incriminated for my points of view. All that has changed…

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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah. The mission of Teen Perspectives is to present articles by Muslim teenagers, addressing some of the challenges we face, and our experiences trying to practice Islam in our environments.

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